Women Sex Offenders

More women charged in sex cases
By Wendy Koch, USA TODAYWed Nov 30, 7:03 AM ET

In courtrooms nationwide this month, at least seven women - four of them
teachers - have been charged or sentenced for having sex with boys, mostly
teenagers. One of the women is pregnant.


Tuesday in Georgia, Lisa Lynette Clark, 37, was indicted in the molestation
of her son's 15-year-old friend, who she says is the father of the baby
she's expecting. She was arrested one day after marrying the boy.


No definitive data exists on whether more females are sexually abusing
children. Yet the number arrested for sex crimes has risen in five of the
past six years as more people consider molestation of boys as heinous as
that of girls.


"There's been a decline in the double standard. That's why you're seeing
more of these cases," says David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes Against
Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire. As more women
enter law enforcement, he says the old attitude that boys are willing, even
lucky, participants has changed.


Richard Gartner, a New York psychologist and author of Betrayed as Boys,
says scandals involving Catholic priests and the case of Mary Kay Letourneau
helped focus attention on boys as sexual victims. Letourneau, a former
Washington teacher, had two children in the late 1990s with a former
student, whom she married this year.


Advances are confusing


"It's hard for boys to think of themselves as victims," says Gartner. He
says adult sexual advances are confusing to boys, who are easily aroused
physically but may be uncomfortable emotionally. He says boys are led to
believe they should take sex whenever offered and if they don't, something
may be wrong with them. "It is a trauma for many boys," he says, adding they
may - as adults - realize they lost some of their childhood.


Experts, including Finkelhor, don't know how often women molest kids,
because most offenses are never reported. They say boys, the target of most
female offenders, are less likely than girls to report them. Yet females
account for a rising share of arrests for all sex crimes since 1995,
according to FBI data.


Females account for 4% of those sexually abusing children under 18, a July
2000 Justice Department report found. The report says they account for 12%
of those molesting kids younger than 6.


In the past 18 months, at least 25 cases nationwide involved female teachers
molesting students, says Robert Shoop, a professor at Kansas State
University and author of Sexual Exploitation in Schools: How to Spot It and
Stop It.


In a U.S. Department of Education report released in June 2004, at least 20%
of students reported sexual misconduct - whether verbal or physical - by a
female teacher or aide.


"It is a big problem," says the report's author, Charol Shakeshaft, a
professor at Hofstra University. She says few schools train teachers in how
to identify and handle it. Four former teachers were charged or sentenced
this month for molesting teen boys: Kimberly Ann Cordrey-McKinney, Margaret
De Barraicua, Sandra Geisel and Debra Lafave.


Teen boys are less likely to have sex with older women than teen girls with
older men, but when they do so, the age gap tends to be larger, according to
a report released in September by Child Trends, a non-profit research group.


At least three women sentenced or charged this year were pregnant or
delivered babies: Clark, Tani Leigh Firkins and Rebecca Ann Boicelli. "These
women are psychologically not much older than their victims," says Gartner.
"They're attracted to kids they can handle. They're 14, too."


Sense of power


Shoop says men are more apt to be serial offenders while women typically
focus on one child and go through a falling-in-love courtship. "They see
this child as a significant other," he says, even if they have husbands or
kids. He says they like the sense of power.


"The female sex offender has more social and sexual inadequacies" than other
women, says Susan Strickland, a forensic social worker in Atlanta.


"They come from really weird, bizarre families where they don't get clarity
about boundaries," she says. "They have issues relating to adult partners."
She says female offenders, especially those molesting pre-pubescent kids,
are more likely to have been sexually abused or otherwise traumatized as
kids.

'I'm not the same boy'

Silvia Johnson, a 41-year-old Colorado mom sentenced this month to 30 years
in prison for plying teen boys with alcohol and drugs and having sex with
them, says she wanted to fit in with her daughter's friends.

"I think I fell in love with being part of the group," Johnson said in a
police interview, "because that was never something I was part of, growing
up. I was never in the popular group. Here I was considered the cool mom.
Guys would flirt with me."

Gartner says victimized boys have trouble developing age-appropriate
relationships. He says they are more likely as adults to suffer depression,
anxiety, drug addiction and resort to pornography and one-night stands.

Boys themselves have described their pain in courtrooms. As underage sex
victims, their names are withheld to protect their identity.

"I'm not the same boy. At school I became the center of attention. Everyone
knew my name," said a 16-year-old boy in a letter read in court in
Sacramento, this month. De Barraicua was sentenced to a year in jail for
having sex with him. The boy's mother also wrote a letter saying he has been
so traumatized "his hair is falling out."

The father of a boy molested in Colorado told the court that the offender,
Silvia Johnson, "took away my best friend, my hunting buddy. I can't have
him back now. He is gone."

Some boys defend the adults who molest them. The 15-year-old boy who married
Clark says she never seduced him. "She's done a lot for me, you know," he
told Atlanta TV station WGCL. "She's been good to me."

Yet his grandmother and legal guardian, Judy Hayles, is appalled. She told
ABC-TV her grandson is too young to get a driver's license, let alone become
a father. Asked about Clark, she says, "My skin just crawls thinking about
her."

While more women are getting attention for molesting children, their jail
terms often are less than what men receive. Last week in Tampa, Lafave, 25,
avoided jail time for molesting a 14-year-old student. She got three years
of house arrest and seven years of probation.

With jail time, says Gartner, "we definitely still have a double standard."


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